Expectation Vs Reality

Ini -expect nyo siguro eh busy ako sa work kaya walang bago dito sa unplog no? Pero ang realidad eh pagala-gala lang ako dito sa UAE hahaha Anyway, let's discuss this never ending passion about expectation and reality.

Expectation vs Reality.... kailangan nga bang paglabanin? Saang team ka aayon? Ikaw ba yong tipo ng tao na laging na me -meet ang mga expectations sa buhay? Or kagaya ka ng mga illustrations na ito....

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Inilalarawan ng larawang ito ang larawan ng totoong Valentines Day ko hahaha Nganga! Anong bago? Mayaman na ko... bakit? hahaha Joke lang! 

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Well, since love month naman, pagpasensyahan nyo na kung puro patungkol sa relationship ang mga illustration sa taas. Let's continue...

Kung naabot mo na ang mga expectations mo sa buhay, eh di well and good. I'm happy for you. At kung ikaw naman ay nararanasan ang hapdi at pait ng realidad ng buhay, dalawa lang ang maipapayo ko:

1. Reality Bites - Oo, nangangagat yan. At pag nakagat ka masakit! Minsan kasi we are creating a world of pure imaginations... our fantasies and the dream of a perfect life... and a perfect partner. Nabuhay na lang sa pagtingala sa langit at umasang one day ay dadarating ang "SWERTE!" Hayahay ang buhay! At pag hindi nangyari, malalaman mo na lang na napag-iwanan ka na, na duguan at luhaan. Madali ang mabuhay, ang hindi madali ay kung paano mabuhay ng tama at makamit ang mga gusto mong mangyari sa buhay mo. Hayy buhay. Hindi ganon ka simple ang lahat! 

Read this:

If you want to have something, desire to be with a special someone, wish to travel places, or aim to reach a dream, YOU have to WANT it badly and WORK HARD for it. Because time just slips away. And without knowing, the shoes you've always wanted to buy weren't there anymore, your one true love got married to someone else, or you have grown old to land on your dream job or your ultimate destination. So if you believe in "good things come to those who wait", think again. (extracted from Jocelle's FB status)

Totoo naman di ba? Kailangan nating magising sa katotohan and that's what you call...

2. Reality Check - Wake up my friend... Let reality be reality. Tama na ang pagkukunwari, tama na ang pagtatamad-tamaran. Wag mabuhay ng puro pag-aalinlangan. We have to go out there...to the real world! Get out of your box! Marami sa atin kasi ang ayaw lumabas at harapin ang realidad ng buhay... bakit? Dahil sa TAKOT!

Read this:

“People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that’s bull$#it. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they’re afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they’re wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It’s all in how you carry it. That’s what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own REALITY. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you’re letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.” ― Jim Morrison

Sabay sabay nating harapin ang realidad ng buhay...

Super M