Sunday, February 16, 2014

Expectation Vs Reality

Ini -expect nyo siguro eh busy ako sa work kaya walang bago dito sa unplog no? Pero ang realidad eh pagala-gala lang ako dito sa UAE hahaha Anyway, let's discuss this never ending passion about expectation and reality.

Expectation vs Reality.... kailangan nga bang paglabanin? Saang team ka aayon? Ikaw ba yong tipo ng tao na laging na me -meet ang mga expectations sa buhay? Or kagaya ka ng mga illustrations na ito....



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Inilalarawan ng larawang ito ang larawan ng totoong Valentines Day ko hahaha Nganga! Anong bago? Mayaman na ko... bakit? hahaha Joke lang! 

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Well, since love month naman, pagpasensyahan nyo na kung puro patungkol sa relationship ang mga illustration sa taas. Let's continue...

Kung naabot mo na ang mga expectations mo sa buhay, eh di well and good. I'm happy for you. At kung ikaw naman ay nararanasan ang hapdi at pait ng realidad ng buhay, dalawa lang ang maipapayo ko:

1. Reality Bites - Oo, nangangagat yan. At pag nakagat ka masakit! Minsan kasi we are creating a world of pure imaginations... our fantasies and the dream of a perfect life... and a perfect partner. Nabuhay na lang sa pagtingala sa langit at umasang one day ay dadarating ang "SWERTE!" Hayahay ang buhay! At pag hindi nangyari, malalaman mo na lang na napag-iwanan ka na, na duguan at luhaan. Madali ang mabuhay, ang hindi madali ay kung paano mabuhay ng tama at makamit ang mga gusto mong mangyari sa buhay mo. Hayy buhay. Hindi ganon ka simple ang lahat! 

Read this:

If you want to have something, desire to be with a special someone, wish to travel places, or aim to reach a dream, YOU have to WANT it badly and WORK HARD for it. Because time just slips away. And without knowing, the shoes you've always wanted to buy weren't there anymore, your one true love got married to someone else, or you have grown old to land on your dream job or your ultimate destination. So if you believe in "good things come to those who wait", think again. (extracted from Jocelle's FB status)

Totoo naman di ba? Kailangan nating magising sa katotohan and that's what you call...

2. Reality Check - Wake up my friend... Let reality be reality. Tama na ang pagkukunwari, tama na ang pagtatamad-tamaran. Wag mabuhay ng puro pag-aalinlangan. We have to go out there...to the real world! Get out of your box! Marami sa atin kasi ang ayaw lumabas at harapin ang realidad ng buhay... bakit? Dahil sa TAKOT!

Read this:

“People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that’s bull$#it. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they’re afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they’re wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It’s all in how you carry it. That’s what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own REALITY. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you’re letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.” ― Jim Morrison


Sabay sabay nating harapin ang realidad ng buhay...
Super M


48 comments:

  1. Naalala ko sa entry nato ang essay na ginawa ni Carl Rogers ng ideal self versus real self. :)

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    1. check ko yang ginawa ni Carl Rogers! Salamat sa dalaw ser OP

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  2. like na like yung sinabi ni Jim Morisson.

    We cling to things that make us happy , safe and comfortable. Kaya mejo mahirap din sigurong mabuhay sa purong realidad . lalo na eh kung yung hope , happiness etc ay dun lang natatagpuan sa "expectations".

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    1. mahirap nga yan Ninong... but we have to expect the unexpected... mahirap din kasi na doon lang naka focus lahat ng attention mo sa mga expectations, na nakalimutan mo ng mabuhay sa realidad... siguro dapat balanse lang din

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  3. Bet na bet ko ang entry na ito Mr. Super Mario . Nakaka-inspire much . Thanks !

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  4. I really love this post, this is very true

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  5. I love the quote of Jim Morrison. I have a lot of expectations pero in the same way I make sure na achievable and close to reality.

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    1. pwede rin! Wag masyadong mag expect kung malayo sa realidad! Ang mahirap, yong ang dali lang nong expectations di pa naging realidad. May malaking problema na ang isang individual pag ganon...

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  6. Lintik na Jim Morrison yan nagsasabi ng totoo! ha ha ha

    Ako matagal ko ng tinanggap na hindi ako marunong kumanta lol! Mahilig lang ako sa music pero yung music walang kahilig-hilig sakin eh :( Kaya yung tanong mo kung nagvi-videoke ako? Hinde! Lutuan na lang kita ng boneless bangus ha ha ha. #kapengadyan

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    1. Hindi pwede yan! Mag vi videoke tayo habang nag kakape! Coffee and Music! O ha! hahaha mag praktis ka na Ms B! hahaha

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  7. I've learned to accept reality and it really bites and it hurts. Kaya nga I have decided to live here sa sarili kong dreamland. hehehe... Agree much ako sa iyong mga tinuran! Love it!

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    1. Padalaw naman sa iyong dreamland! hahaha may kape ba dyan?

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  8. hey i know that picture! 500 Days of Summer! Super like that movie. Nakakarelate ako dun, at napakarealistic ng story dahil hindi lahat ng nasa paligid natin ay nabubuhay sa fairy tales. reality bites talaga but you really have to be tough and learn to be strong.

    At the same time reality check. Ito naman talaga ang mas mahirap. Ang reality check because most of the time we choose not believe, and we'd rather go on with this delusional bliss.

    In my case i've learned it the hard way. Madalas ko ma meet ang mga expectations ko sa buhay, and it's always been life's dirty tricks. When something is really too good to be true, then it's really too good to be true. Kaya hindi ko na agad pinaniniwalaan yon. I learned that you have to set goals in life and work hard to reach it. There's no such thing as shortcuts or miracles, unless God would have a lapsus in mind and would accidentally pour out incredible grace to make my life any fucking better than how I wanted it to. Now I'm bordering blasphemy.

    Anyway, that thing is you keep the faith and stay strong. Love and life would come along, and if not, then work your ass off and teach these b*tches not to mess up with you.

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    1. Ang intense nito Mr Tripster! Sometimes we experienced harsh lessons in life kaya agree ako to keep the faith and be strong!

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  9. Sa sobrang harsh ng real reality (ayan redundant na) lels, we tend to make our own reality... We have to surround ourselves with positivity, tao man yan, bagay o mga pangarap para magsumikap pa rin tayong makamit yung real and achievable dreams. Lahay possible, tiwala lang :D

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    1. puro reality ah hahaha! Walang impossible! Kapit lang! :D

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  10. sanali medyo tumulo yung cerebral fluid ko sa mga english na part eh... lolz.

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  11. Masakit ang reality , pero ang realidad ko ngayon sobrang sarap haha char!

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    1. naks!!!! Sarap na sarap ka sa realidad mo ah! hahaha

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  12. Ang ganda ng sinabi ni pareng Jim!

    May natutunan ako sa post na 'to, minsan kasi puro daydreaming na lang ginagawa ko. Let's work hard!

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  13. well reality something I intend to ignore most of the time, but most of the time it's to tough to resist and to painful to accept :( anyways I'd rather live with such emotion that to be happy for thing aren't real at all

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  14. wag na wag mag expect, umiikot ang kamay ng orasan wala kang kontrol- ganyan kadali ang buhay.

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